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Confidence is
probably one of the biggest factors affecting your success... or lack of
it!
Most of us think
it's something you're born with and cannot change. But let me put you right on
that here and now... |
You were not born with
self-confidence.
That is, self-confidence is not
something innate - it can be taught, nurtured and built over the years, at any
stage in life.
By using the exercise below, you
will prove just that!
Let me share two other things with
you...
- "Confidence is one of the
main requirements to success, happiness and reaching your
goals".
- "Having enormous
self-confidence is useful in just about every part of your
life".
As you work through the exercise
below, keep these comments, highlighted above, in your mind.
One of the most important aspects
to confidence is feeling comfortable in your own ability to achieve something.
This exercise will help you
improve your skills or abilities and in doing that you'll automatically become
more confident.
However, this is only the
beginning. There's a lot more you can do to dramatically improve your
confidence.
But for now, let's crack
on...
OK, now to your
exercise...
- Make a list of all the areas in
which you lack confidence
- Make a list of all the areas
where you feel confident in yourself.
- Take your first list and for
each thing you've written down, write down one way you can make it better. For
instance, you may need to do some research, put in some extra practice, get
some lessons, etc. These are your goals to help you improve. By improving your
ability, you'll help your confidence grow.
- Next to each goal you've just
written down, write down a target date for when you're going to start working
towards achieving that goal.
- Now do the same for you second
list. Just because you're confident in certain areas of your life, it doesn't
mean you can't improve!
As I said before this is just a
starter.
Make sure you've set yourself
realistic, but challenging targets for improving your abilities.
Review everything you've written
down today on a weekly basis until you've completed your goals.
It's at that point you'll see an
improvement in your confidence.
Well done! You've just taken the
first steps to improving your confidence!
Look out for more confidence
boosting Life Coaching articles coming very soon...
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Confident - Create the life you want! Develop the confidence and
self-belief you need to achieve incredible success at work... in your personal
life... in your relationships... in fact, in all that you do!
Do you want to find more direction in your life and live the
life you truly desire?
Then
Contact me right
now to find out how Life Improvement Coaching can help you change your life
beyond your wildest dreams and arrange a FREE telephone coaching
session. |
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